Robbie posted some gold nuggets on the "Composer Interview" thread and I think it's worth starting this thread off by pasting his words here. Thanks Robbie!!
Here goes, take it away Robbie!!:

- Listen - I know that Mazz already stressed it but there is a reason that we have two ears and one mouth. The succesful sales person pays attention to that ratio and listens more than they talk. Then when they do talk it also seems more important. And when you are listening make sure that you are actually listening and not focusing on what you are going to say next.
- get them to talk about themself or what they do. Don't just ask questions in a strange manner but ask questions that gets them talking about things they like. It might be about this project, it might be about something totally unrelated. You might see something in their office which shows what they like (if you are meeting at their office). People typically like to hear themself talk. If you have a meeting and 90% of the time you had fun discussing things that they liked than they will be left with what a great time they had with you. Right now I am in the mortgage business. Almost all of my business comes from local realtor referrals. When I go visit local realtors I do NOT talk about mortgages unless they bring it up. I will talk about anything and everything just to get into a conversation with the realtor. Sometimes no conversation happens. You never know what sort of mood they might be in. I smile a lot and when appropriate get them to laugh (don't be obscene, you just met the person). Of course they know that I want them to refer their clients to me but if I come right out and ask them to do that its kinda like getting an annoying telemarketing phone call.
- you don't have to feel nervous about talking about yourself. As I mentioned in my above paragraph you should only talk about yourself once they ask you a question. This should be more natural.
- Now for my most important sales coaching tip (I have been a sales manager for a very large RV dealer and have coached many sales people over the years in banking, telemarketing and other related fields) When you are speaking your brain needs to be ahead of your mouth. In other words, you want to be thinking about what you are saying before it comes out of your mouth. There is one very simple way to know when you are doing this or when you are listening to another sales person if they are doing it. It is the word "Um". Don't use this word! Ever! Unless you actually mean to be saying it. You will sound more articulate if you pause and say nothing for 2 seconds than you will if you fill the space with an "um". Pay attention the next time you hear some one speaking in a sales setting or in front of a group. If they are saying a lot of "ums" then their brain is not ahead of their mouth. Why would anyone choose to use that word? We don't use that word when we write.
Good luck, relax and have fun,
Robbie
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